Personal decisions

Family Decision Assessment

Compare important household or life decisions in a more balanced and collaborative way. Useful for schooling, relocation, caregiving, budgeting, and shared priorities. The criteria can be changed, added to and weighted.

What the framework is

A family decision assessment compares the options in a household decision, such as schooling, a move, care for a relative or a big purchase, so everyone's priorities count. The template starts with five criteria: Family Wellbeing, Financial Impact, Practicality, Long-Term Benefit and Alignment with Family Values. The criteria can be changed, added to and weighted.

What the result looks like

EXAMPLE
Which school is best for our family?
Top ranked
Local primary
Family Wellbeing 92% · 1st
Financial Impact 63% · 1st
Practicality 38% · 3rd
Long-Term Benefit 75% · 1st
Alignment with Family Values 50% · 2nd
63%
Weighted win rate

Overall

Options Weighted win rate
01
Local primary
Family Wellbeing 1st · Financial Impact 1st · Practicality 3rd · Long-Term Benefit 1st · Alignment with Family Values 2nd
63%
02
School with a music focus
Family Wellbeing 2nd · Financial Impact 2nd · Practicality 1st · Long-Term Benefit 3rd · Alignment with Family Values 1st
52%
03
Bilingual school
Family Wellbeing 3rd · Financial Impact 3rd · Practicality 2nd · Long-Term Benefit 2nd · Alignment with Family Values 3rd
35%

Overall with the criteria

Rank
Options
Family Wellbeing
20%
Financial Impact
20%
Practicality
20%
Long-Term Benefit
20%
Alignment with Family Values
20%
Overall
Weighted win rate
01 Local primary
92%
1st
63%
1st
38%
3rd
75%
1st
50%
2nd
63%
02 School with a music focus
42%
2nd
58%
2nd
71%
1st
33%
3rd
54%
1st
52%
03 Bilingual school
17%
3rd
29%
3rd
42%
2nd
42%
2nd
46%
3rd
35%

By the options

01 · Local primary 63% weighted win rate
–
Family Wellbeing
92%
1st of 3 · 22 Wins · 2 Losses
–
Financial Impact
63%
1st of 3 · 15 Wins · 9 Losses
–
Practicality
38%
3rd of 3 · 9 Wins · 15 Losses
–
Long-Term Benefit
75%
1st of 3 · 18 Wins · 6 Losses
–
Alignment with Family Values
50%
2nd of 3 · 12 Wins · 12 Losses
02 · School with a music focus 52% weighted win rate
–
Family Wellbeing
42%
2nd of 3 · 10 Wins · 14 Losses
–
Financial Impact
58%
2nd of 3 · 14 Wins · 10 Losses
–
Practicality
71%
1st of 3 · 17 Wins · 7 Losses
–
Long-Term Benefit
33%
3rd of 3 · 8 Wins · 16 Losses
–
Alignment with Family Values
54%
1st of 3 · 13 Wins · 11 Losses
03 · Bilingual school 35% weighted win rate
–
Family Wellbeing
17%
3rd of 3 · 4 Wins · 20 Losses
–
Financial Impact
29%
3rd of 3 · 7 Wins · 17 Losses
–
Practicality
42%
2nd of 3 · 10 Wins · 14 Losses
–
Long-Term Benefit
42%
2nd of 3 · 10 Wins · 14 Losses
–
Alignment with Family Values
46%
3rd of 3 · 11 Wins · 13 Losses
Scoring Explanations
CRITERIA WEIGHTINGS — The % weighting for each criterion is shown in the table header. Unless this was entered in the setup, the weighting is equal across criteria.
WEIGHTED WIN RATE — Each criterion's result, in the measure they share, averaged using the assigned weightings.

When it earns its place

Use it when a decision affects the whole household and you want each person's view, including older children's, before deciding.

The trap is the loudest voice. Each person comparing the options separately gives quieter members the same weight, and shows where people actually disagree.

How to run it with a group

  1. List the options as a family.
  2. Agree how much each criterion counts.
  3. Send the link to everyone who should have a say. Participants do not need an account to respond.
  4. Read the overall ranking together, then look at where individual answers differed. That is the conversation to have.

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