Personal decisions

Personal Decision Assessment

Compare major life choices across practical, emotional, financial, and long-term considerations. Useful when navigating difficult or uncertain personal decisions with competing priorities. The criteria can be changed, added to and weighted.

What the framework is

A personal decision assessment compares the options in a big personal choice against what matters to you, each criterion weighted. The template starts with five criteria: Long-Term Benefit, Personal Fulfilment, Financial Impact, Risk Level and Lifestyle Fit. The criteria can be changed, added to and weighted.

What the result looks like

EXAMPLE
Which option is right for me?
Top ranked
Stay in current role
Long-Term Benefit 92% · 1st
Personal Fulfilment 63% · 1st
Financial Impact 38% · 3rd
Risk Level 75% · 1st
Lifestyle Fit 50% · 2nd
63%
Weighted win rate

Overall

Options Weighted win rate
01
Stay in current role
Long-Term Benefit 1st · Personal Fulfilment 1st · Financial Impact 3rd · Risk Level 1st · Lifestyle Fit 2nd
63%
02
Go part-time
Long-Term Benefit 2nd · Personal Fulfilment 2nd · Financial Impact 1st · Risk Level 3rd · Lifestyle Fit 1st
52%
03
Take a sabbatical
Long-Term Benefit 3rd · Personal Fulfilment 3rd · Financial Impact 2nd · Risk Level 2nd · Lifestyle Fit 3rd
35%

Overall with the criteria

Rank
Options
Long-Term Benefit
20%
Personal Fulfilment
20%
Financial Impact
20%
Risk Level
20%
Lifestyle Fit
20%
Overall
Weighted win rate
01 Stay in current role
92%
1st
63%
1st
38%
3rd
75%
1st
50%
2nd
63%
02 Go part-time
42%
2nd
58%
2nd
71%
1st
33%
3rd
54%
1st
52%
03 Take a sabbatical
17%
3rd
29%
3rd
42%
2nd
42%
2nd
46%
3rd
35%

By the options

01 · Stay in current role 63% weighted win rate
–
Long-Term Benefit
92%
1st of 3 · 22 Wins · 2 Losses
–
Personal Fulfilment
63%
1st of 3 · 15 Wins · 9 Losses
–
Financial Impact
38%
3rd of 3 · 9 Wins · 15 Losses
–
Risk Level
75%
1st of 3 · 18 Wins · 6 Losses
–
Lifestyle Fit
50%
2nd of 3 · 12 Wins · 12 Losses
02 · Go part-time 52% weighted win rate
–
Long-Term Benefit
42%
2nd of 3 · 10 Wins · 14 Losses
–
Personal Fulfilment
58%
2nd of 3 · 14 Wins · 10 Losses
–
Financial Impact
71%
1st of 3 · 17 Wins · 7 Losses
–
Risk Level
33%
3rd of 3 · 8 Wins · 16 Losses
–
Lifestyle Fit
54%
1st of 3 · 13 Wins · 11 Losses
03 · Take a sabbatical 35% weighted win rate
–
Long-Term Benefit
17%
3rd of 3 · 4 Wins · 20 Losses
–
Personal Fulfilment
29%
3rd of 3 · 7 Wins · 17 Losses
–
Financial Impact
42%
2nd of 3 · 10 Wins · 14 Losses
–
Risk Level
42%
2nd of 3 · 10 Wins · 14 Losses
–
Lifestyle Fit
46%
3rd of 3 · 11 Wins · 13 Losses
Scoring Explanations
CRITERIA WEIGHTINGS — The % weighting for each criterion is shown in the table header. Unless this was entered in the setup, the weighting is equal across criteria.
WEIGHTED WIN RATE — Each criterion's result, in the measure they share, averaged using the assigned weightings.

When it earns its place

Use it when you are stuck between two to five real options and keep going round in circles. Writing the options and criteria down is often half the answer.

The trap is deciding first and scoring afterwards. If you already know which option you want, notice it. Then check whether the ranking agrees, and if not, which criterion is pulling against it.

How to run it with a group

  1. List two to five options, including doing nothing if that is possible.
  2. Rename the criteria to fit, and decide how much each counts for you now.
  3. Compare the options two at a time on each criterion.
  4. If the decision affects others, send them the link too. Participants do not need an account to respond.
  5. Read the ranking per criterion as well as overall. An option that wins overall but ranks last on risk needs a plan for that risk.

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